Moriartians Unite!

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I've lived in Moriarty now for ten years. I've loved it since the beginning. It's a redneck town...farmers and ranchers who work hard to make a living. People hold the door open for each other at the post office. Drivers wave as they pass. 

It's also a two-truck stop town and a short commute to Albuquerque, sitting on Rt 66, which is 100 years old this year. 

There are quite a few history-filled museums and two city parks with lots of trees. It's good energy all over the place.

I was here for about three years when COVID hit...living with my pets... no car. I felt isolated and depressed. I turned to social media, Facebook primarily. 

At first, I used it like I used to a daily journal -- I whined about my life and shared waaaaaay too much personal information. I fought with family online. I reached out to total strangers -- people who weren't really real to me, just online entities floating around out there -- for friendship, sometimes resulting in scams. Some people I met were looking for "romance".  I wasn't. 

I made a mess of my social media experience but I learned from it, too. I vowed to continue using it but in positive ways. After all, I also met people who were to become dear friends after years of interaction online. 

At this time, too, I grew anxious and began having panic attacks. Then my blood pressure shot through the roof and I was in the hospital a couple of times for possible stroke. The anxiety only made my BP worse. 

I've been on meds for both conditions for a bit, and they are working well. I walk every day and changed my diet. I find I can concentrate better, hence this first post on my new blog, Moriartians Unite! 

My goal for the blog is threefold:

1. Encourage kindness 

2. Use social media to build a stronger sense of community statewide 

3. Help our young people and each other learn effective ways to find calm in an anxious world 

That's it for now. I hope you like what I'm saying. I hope I makes sense. Kind, constructive comments welcome. Until next time 


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