Step forward to a simpler time

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I've been snapping photos of the many places in the state that I've visited or at the least, driven past, for years now. I love New Mexico.
I often find myself imagining what life was like when some of the abandoned homesteads were alive... someone's dream back when life wasn't so complex. But then I think, wait a minute. 

Honestly, I'm 60 and for all my many years, I really don't think there ever was a simpler time. 
I grew up with my parents' expectation that I would graduate high school, get a college degree and move on to steady employment at a job I enjoy, am good at, and will retire from.

I grew up anxious and depressed. Today, I see that my kids and friends are even more anxious. 
It's crazy! We have technology to make life easier, maybe even simpler, but our kids are still expected to get a job, make a "living", work hard.
I don't want that for my grandkids. I want them to grow up NOT feeling the pressure to succeed or compete. I want them to love learning for learning's sake.
I want them to grow up relaxed, content with the world, happy. What a concept. 
That's all I've got for today. Until next time... peace.

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